What are the chances? 3 steps to determine the quality of the one you admire

What if I told you that you had to watch the one you were attracted disappear, only to be gone forever?

Well, something similar happened to me recently.

It all started in October. I found a woman who I thought was rather attractive. But, one doesn’t just leave it at that. For someone to have a truly fulfilling relationship, they should, beforehand, analyse the situation before trying to make a move.

The step I took to begin analysation was by doing: a physical observation, a surrounding observation, and an interaction observation.

The physical observation is simply just by looking. For example, do they look attractive? If you don’t find them attractive, you’ll have to do more digging when it comes to surrounding and interaction in order to determine the quality of the person.

Surrounding observation is by looking at the person’s surroundings. For example, the way they dress. Or, the best case scenario, what do their friends seem like. Whatever they act like, most likely, has an influence over whoever it is you like.

And, interaction observation is by looking at how they interact with others and their surroundings. Are they friendly? Do they like showing off expensive stuff? Do they seem clever?

After I gained knowledge across all three of these, I created my own observation report to summarise all my current knowledge, and what knowledge I didn’t have. You should make sure to be as clear as possible when it comes to the crucial things you haven’t picked up on. For example, you might’ve noticed that she’s kind, but you might not’ve noticed that she likes to get drunk. You don’t need to make it negative, just make it fair and honest.

As time went on, I felt unsure. As, well, I had a pretty mixed bag. Some things were positive, and some were negative. I noticed that she appeared as feminine, but she was also friends with people who were potentially degenerates. I also had, a couple of times, noticed that she would whisper about someone she was attracted to. And that was really an unclear observation, since that could be either positive or negative.

Days turned into weeks, and weeks turned into months. Eventually, I concluded that because I had such a miscellany, I realised that in order to find out if she was high-quality, I would have to get to know her. There were a couple of moments which could’ve been okay to make a move, but they weren’t perfect. I wanted it to be perfect.

It was only last week when I said to myself, that at any chance I could get, I would take it.

And, then it reached Friday. I was sitting down at a table, with practically a crowd of people behind me, and a few boys sitting near me at my table. She, abnormally, returned to the school early. I felt unsure, as this was really odd and never really happened before. An old friend of mine had even returned to the school earlier than usual as well. I thought that maybe time was somehow going slower.

I kept an eye out to see if her friends would be leaving at any point, but it didn’t seem like it. They kept standing next to her. But, one of them, kept turning around to look in my direction.

Then … they walked.

They walked towards the front door, which was near where I was sitting. I slightly doubted to myself, for some reason.

I kept looking down at my phone, whilst typing an article that I hoped to make money off.

Then …

One of her friends walked towards a boy sitting at my table. They were talking about something, but I couldn’t quite hear what.

Then, from the corner of my eye, I saw her walk towards and talk to the boy. They all walked away, and then I heard the boys acting like it was they’re birthday, smiling and laughing with the boy.

After a few short moments, the break was over and I was due to walk to my next class. I saw her smile, and then ran towards another one of her friends, with the pair of them in joy.

I also saw that the boys were still sitting at the table, even though the bell had already went, whilst all being happy.

She had a vastly positive smile on her face.

I got home later that day, and continued to work on myself.